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		<title>Weekly parent: around Asheville</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;re back from family vacation number two.  And ready to be at home for a while.
Last week&#8217;s column was a round-up of fun and mostly free ways to entertain your kids in Asheville.
I also wrote this fun profile of local graphic novelist Hope Larson. Her new comic, Chiggers, hit stores a couple weeks ago. My [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We&#8217;re back from family vacation number two.  And ready to be at home for a while.</p>
<p>Last week&#8217;s <a href="http://www.mountainx.com/ae/2008/edgy_mama_mom_what_are_we_going_to_do_today">column</a> was a round-up of fun and mostly free ways to entertain your kids in Asheville.</p>
<p>I also wrote this <a href="http://www.mountainx.com/ae/2007/happy_feet_sore_fingers/">fun profile</a> of local graphic novelist Hope Larson. Her new comic, Chiggers, hit stores a couple weeks ago. My 9-year-old loves the book!</p>
<p>I promise to blog something soon. I think.</p>
<p>Happy fourth of July yesterday!</p>
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		<title>Weekly parent: sun, sand and sickness</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2008 00:47:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Seems that all of my minimal creative summer energy leaches into my weekly column. So enjoy!
I&#8217;ll blog again some day. Happy solstice, June, and Independence Day!
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seems that all of my minimal creative summer energy leaches into my weekly <a href="http://www.mountainx.com/ae/2008/edgy_mama_sun_sand_and_sickness">column</a>. So enjoy!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll blog again some day. Happy solstice, June, and Independence Day!</p>
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		<title>Weekly parent: happy birthday LEGO bricks!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2008 13:27:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I haven&#8217;t even had time to post a link to my column this week! Here it is, wishing everyone&#8217;s favorite plastic toy a happy 50th.
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		<title>Back to reality</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 19:13:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;re back from the beach&#8211;sun, sand, beer and too much red meat punctuated by sick children, family tension, and sunburn. Overall, a great trip!
Not to complain about adding on to my house, but&#8230;I&#8217;m going to complain about adding on to my house. We came back to no bathroom (supposed to be completely remodeled in our [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We&#8217;re back from the beach&#8211;sun, sand, beer and too much red meat punctuated by sick children, family tension, and sunburn. Overall, a great trip!</p>
<p>Not to complain about adding on to my house, but&#8230;I&#8217;m going to complain about adding on to my house. We came back to no bathroom (supposed to be completely remodeled in our absence&#8211;ha!) and drywall dust covering everything. It even seeped into the kitchen drawers. Incredible. I was trying to find one room that hasn&#8217;t been impacted by the renovation&#8211;just one. It doesn&#8217;t exist. Even the screen porch is loaded with tools and wall plaster. My desk is covered with glass tiles, earth plaster samples, and marble soap shelves. Did I mention that there&#8217;s drywall dust everywhere?</p>
<p>Enough of that.</p>
<p>I missed being in touch here. Tell me what&#8217;s been happening?</p>
<p>Next weekend, you must all attend one of two events in Asheville: the <a href="http://www.mountainx.com/news/2008/061108women_proclaim_its_time_for_our_power">Time for our Power Women&#8217;s Conference</a> and/or the <a href="http://www.mountainx.com/news/2008/061108village_people">Ashevillage Building Convergence</a>. More about both soon!</p>
<p>Happy Sunday!</p>
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		<title>Weekly parent: Life of a child</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2008 17:21:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week&#8217;s column is in memory of Edie Burke, a remarkable child. And in honor of my amazing community of neighbors and friends.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This <a href="http://www.mountainx.com/ae/2008/edgy_mama_life_of_a_child">week&#8217;s column</a> is in memory of Edie Burke, a remarkable child. And in honor of my amazing community of neighbors and friends.</p>
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		<title>Sand and sun</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 14:18:35 +0000</pubDate>
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I&#8217;m beaching it, so there won&#8217;t be many updates here for the next week or so. But you should be out in the sun playing as well, instead of reading dull bloggies.
Ah, summer&#8230;


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<p>I&#8217;m beaching it, so there won&#8217;t be many updates here for the next week or so. But you should be out in the sun playing as well, instead of reading dull bloggies.</p>
<p>Ah, summer&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Weekly parent: Summer&#8217;s here&#8211;so are the whinys!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 18:55:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last full day of school today for my kidlings. So summer&#8217;s here. Hurrah! I think. Here&#8217;s my Mt. X column talking bout it all.
What are your summer plans with kids?
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last full day of school today for my kidlings. So summer&#8217;s here. Hurrah! I think. Here&#8217;s my <a href="http://www.mountainx.com/ae/2008/edgy_mama_summers_here_as_are_the_whinys">Mt. X column</a> talking bout it all.</p>
<p>What are your summer plans with kids?</p>
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		<title>Craziness and construction</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 23:21:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve sucked at blogging lately. I have tons of excuses: it&#8217;s the last week of school; I&#8217;ve been writing a cover story for Mt. X that sucking all my brain power; home construction decisions are taking over my life and lots of my precious time, etc., etc. Not that you want to hear it.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve sucked at blogging lately. I have tons of excuses: it&#8217;s the last week of school; I&#8217;ve been writing a cover story for Mt. X that sucking all my brain power; home construction decisions are taking over my life and lots of my precious time, etc., etc. Not that you want to hear it.</p>
<p>In case you&#8217;re bored, here are a few more construction shots&#8211;from last week. We&#8217;re much further along this week. My builders, Rare Earth Builders, rock.</p>
<p><a href="http://edgymama.com/gallery/photo/2538954029/Nerve-wracking-work.html" class="tt-flickr"></p>
<p style="text-align: center"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2041/2538954029_afb519f041_m.jpg" alt="Nerve-wracking work" border="0" height="240" width="160" /></p>
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<p align="center">This made me nervous.</p>
<p align="center"><a href="http://edgymama.com/gallery/photo/2538953999/Lots-o-rock.html" class="tt-flickr"></p>
<p style="text-align: center"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3039/2538953999_94ab604296_m.jpg" alt="Lots o' rock" border="0" height="240" width="160" /></p>
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<p align="center">  Some of this rock will become a retaining wall around my addition.</p>
<p align="center">I love rock yards.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2311/2538953937_25b93e6669_m.jpg" alt="Roof trusses" border="0" height="160" width="240" /></p>
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<p align="center">  Roof trusses are cool.</p>
<p align="center"><a href="http://edgymama.com/gallery/photo/2538953965/Smoke-duct-test.html" class="tt-flickr"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3272/2538953965_138a35a5a8_m.jpg" alt="Smoke duct test" border="0" height="240" width="160" /></a></p>
<p align="center">This is called a smoke duct test. They tape up all your registers, hook up a duct to your intake system and blow smoke through it to see where your ducts are leaking. Even cooler than roof tresses.</p>
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		<title>Weekly parent: the birds and the cicadas</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 14:17:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week I try to handle some sensitive reproductive questions from the kidlings in my column.
How have you handled these types of questions?
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week I try to handle some sensitive reproductive questions from the kidlings in <a href="http://www.mountainx.com/ae/2008/edgy_mama_the_birds_and_the_cicadas">my column</a>.</p>
<p>How have you handled these types of questions?</p>
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		<title>FLDS kids need to be with their families</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 15:52:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s good to know that judges in Texas are reading my Edgy Mama column in Mountain Xpress.
OK, maybe they&#8217;re not reading my column specifically, but can I say that my mind works like that of a sharp-honed-edge Texas court of appeals? Wait, do I really want to make that comparision? Yes, in this situation, I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s good to know that <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/05/22/AR2008052200548_2.html?hpid=moreheadlines">judges in Texas</a> are reading my <a href="http://www.mountainx.com/ae/2008/edgy_mama_children_separated_from_their_families">Edgy Mama column</a> in <a href="http://www.mountainx.com">Mountain Xpress</a>.</p>
<p>OK, maybe they&#8217;re not reading <a href="http://www.mountainx.com/ae/2008/edgy_mama_children_separated_from_their_families">my column</a> specifically, but can I say that my mind works like that of a sharp-honed-edge Texas court of appeals? Wait, do I really want to make that comparision? Yes, in this situation, I think I do.</p>
<p>Yesterday, a three-judge panel in Texas ruled that child state-protection agencies lacked the evidence necessary to forcibly remove all of the children at the Yearning from Zion Ranch from their families.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s look at some of what I wrote in <a href="http://www.mountainx.com/ae/2008/edgy_mama_children_separated_from_their_families">my column</a> about this situation two weeks ago. Here I&#8217;m addressing the state of Texas child protective services:</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&#8220;But, why exactly did you take <em>all</em> of the girls, from <em>nursing</em> babies and toddlers to teenagers, away from their families? And why did you insist on removing all the male children as well? The argument that the boys are being groomed as perpetrators holds a tiny bit of water, but not for the young ones. I can’t even groom my 6-year-old to wipe his mouth with a napkin.&#8221;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Here&#8217;s what the court of appeals judges wrote yesterday:</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&#8220;Even if one views the FLDS belief system as creating a danger of sexual abuse by grooming boys to be perpetrators of sexual abuse and raising girls to be victims of sexual abuse. . . there is no evidence that this danger is &#8216;immediate&#8217; or &#8216;urgent&#8217; . . . with respect to every child in the community.&#8221;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">More from <a href="http://www.mountainx.com/ae/2008/edgy_mama_children_separated_from_their_families">my column</a>:<span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman'">&#8220;Despite protests from the parents, many of whom say they are not engaged in polygamous or underage marital practices, every child who formerly lived on this ranch has been ripped away from home and put into foster care</span>&#8230;So, why aren’t government officials looking at this situation on a case-by-case basis? Supposedly, more than 130 women, some of them mothers, voluntarily left the ranch when offered the opportunity. Why can’t these women have their kids back?&#8221;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">From the court of appeals:</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">&#8220;There is no evidence that [the mothers] have allowed or are going to allow any of their minor female children to be subjected to any sexual or physical abuse. There is simply no evidence specific to [the mothers&#8217;] children at all except that they exist, they were taken into custody at the Yearning For Zion ranch, and they are living with people who share a &#8216;pervasive belief system&#8217; that condones underage marriage and underage pregnancy.&#8221;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Again, I believe that the state should act to remove abused children from their abusers, if they have evidence of abuse. I also hate the idea of girls being directed to marry and marry young.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">But, as a mother, I mostly hate the idea of loved, well-cared-for children being forcibly taken from their families because of the whiff of wrong-doing by a few men associated with the group. As I said in my column, punish the offenders, not the innocent.</p>
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